Sunday, December 11, 2011

I Won at Scarlet's Letter!

Today was a hell of a day, going from a one bedroom apartment to a two story (three bedroom, 1.5 bath) house with a gym...

I got an email half way through moving that I had won Scarlet Letter's Sqweel Giveaway!
I think that made my entire morning.
But seriously, Scarlet's Letter is always hosting giveaways, so favorite her and go back often!

Right now she's even hosting one for a Travel Pop G-Spot Lollipop in dark chocolate. (Personally, looks fantastic, and I probably already beat you there!)

I can't wait to post what I think about the Sqweel! =D

Thursday, December 8, 2011


EdenFantasys wants you!

That's right.
EdenFantasys is an adult sex community website that is always hiring new bloggers to work for them. With their EdenLovesBloggers area, it's even easy to apply! You click the "Join Now" button at the bottom of EdenLovesBloggers and they'll decide which blog style is best for yours.
Not everything has to be sex or sex toys even. It could be a lifestyle blog or advice column!
(However, to be eligible for any of these things, your blog does have to be updated regularly and at least three months old.)

There's their Product Reviews worth one free product a month in exchange for an honest review in return, even some "safe for work" products.
Sponsored Posts are just positive posts about something you saw/found on an EdenFantasys portion, whether it's their SexIs magazine, community, or forums. You can do this twice a month in exchange for gift cards!
There's also the Eden Affiliate Program, where you can earn 20% commission via sales, open your own store, and make real life and online sales!
They may even offer to do a Paid Banner & Text Ad! There are more requirements within the link to determine the eligibility of your blog for this program, but hey! Who doesn't like to get paid for advertising?

I applied and got a response back within 12 hours! My blog qualifies for Sponsored Posts, which is exciting for me because not only can I write about anything inspired from EdenFantasys' website, but I get gift cards in exchange! Ah, the joys of potentially free things!

So, easy to apply, always quick responses from your coordinator, four different options to try for, and a great website to surf around on! What's not to love?


This review is in the compliance of the FTC guidelines as provided by EdenFantasys; free things for an unbiased review. =)

Fetish ATCs!

I love to draw. And I love to learn. And I love names of odd and obscure fetishes. I also love swapping crafty items for other crafty items. 

An ATC is an acronym for Artist Trading Card. Essentially it is a "baseball card" of artwork. 2.5 by 3.5 inches (same size as your average trade-able card like baseball, Pokemon, Magic the Gathering, whatever...) of original artwork. 

I chose an ATC swap with the category of "obscure fetishes." However, I didn't feel the need to be completely disgusting. I didn't feel like drawing watersports, scat, adult babies, whatever... I just wanted something either nice to look at when completed or a "funny" obscure fetish.

First up was Dacryphilia, the arousal from tears or sobbing. 

My boyfriend and I always have incredible sex after I end up sobbing. I don't know if it's dacryphilia or "make up sex," but both of us enjoy the sex after I cry.

The next one I decided to draw is Urusagalmatophilia, or the sexual attraction to teddy bears.

I decided to put a funny twist on him, making him all raggedy and "well-loved" with the thought bubble of "why me?"

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Depo Provera

I'm currently on a Depo-Provera shot. I love never bleeding. I love never even having to think about blood all over everything. I haven't actually had a period in... 4 or 5 years.
I'm concerned about it effecting having kids.
I'm also worried that it's causing me to be very... Emotionally fucked up. At the end of the birth control shot, I cry at everything. I'm severely depressed. I can't even stand myself. I second guess everything.
(I'm also worried about the not having kids thing, the whole "Depo-Provera is used for chemical castration" thing...)

Reading up on the Implanon, the only severe side effect is possible no periods, possible heavy periods, or a change in sex drive. Maybe headaches.

Reading up on the IUD, the whole thing of it maybe moving, being absorbed into the uterus...

I never remember to take pills, they are known to cause severe migraines, and I really hate bleeding after not bleeding for years.

Implanon and the IUD are looking to be my best options... But they're so expensive! Implanon lasts up to three years and the IUD can last up to 12 years...
Decisions, decisions...

Does anyone have any insight on this?

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Review: LELO Gigi

Manufacturing Company: Lelo
Cost: $65 on Amazon, $109 on LELO's website, and $115 in most stores
Materials: Body Safe Silicone

Benefits: Quiet, different speeds and modes, rechargeable with a quick recharge time, 10 year partial replacement warranty, 1 year limited warranty
Cons: Slippery when wet, pricey 

Rating: 4 out of 5
It's a bit pricey for a sex toy, but you get what you pay for, right? Plus, nothing is cheap when it's body safe AND rechargeable. 

Added Note: This has a matte finish, giving it an interesting touch texture. It comes with its own little silk pouch for storage. It takes only 2 hours to charge for 4 hours of play and will store the charge for up to 90 days with a charge indicator (the nobs to change speeds). You get "soft flutter to an intense pulsation," which even if that is from the website, is true fact.